MEMBERSHIP
At SELF MADE, we value:
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We view recovery as a holistic practice and honor each other’s unique paths to recovery with respect. Our success is not determined by a day-count, or any other externally given measurement but by claiming agency over our individual processes. In practice, this looks like: Making small shifts and adding in healthier coping strategies over time; expanding our capacity for healing the whole of who we are; developing awareness around the trap of black-and-white thinking; and approaching setbacks as lessons, not failures.
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We approach recovery not as a life sentence but as a path toward liberation. To that end, we recognize that the work of liberating ourselves is incomplete if we are not also working for the liberation of all.
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We assert that nobody knows better than we do what we need to recover. While we wholeheartedly welcome people from all walks of recovery, this space resists adhering to the rules of any specific tradition or authority. We develop self-trust, and we regard ourselves with dignity.
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We come together to lift our voices, stories, and authentic selves and celebrate each other through this revolutionary work. The journey of recovery is a difficult one; we affirm that joy not only walks alongside the path but is indeed its ultimate aim.
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Whether you have a long-term recovery practice or are simply curious or “trying on” sobriety, you are welcome, exactly as you are. We show up to bear witness and to allow ourselves to be seen, to practice active listening, and to be generous and expansive with our minds and hearts as we carry each other through the hard parts and the victories.Item description
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We are a visionary community, living into the possibility that transformation—both personal and collective—is inevitable. We stay curious about how we might shift our way of being so that we are sustained and enlivened through the long game of healing, self-discovery, and self-expression.
“This is the true joy in life, being used for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one. Being a force of nature instead of a feverish, selfish little clod of ailments and grievances, complaining that the world will not devote itself to making you happy. I am of the opinion that my life belongs to the whole community and as long as I live, it is my privilege to do for it what I can. I want to be thoroughly used up when I die, for the harder I work, the more I live. I rejoice in life for its own sake. Life is no brief candle to me. It is a sort of splendid torch which I have got hold of for the moment and I want to make it burn as brightly as possible before handing it on to future generations.”.”
— George Bernard Shaw
SELF MADE METHOD
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Explore
We’ll explore what led you to coaching, your short and long-term goals, and you’ll be introduced to and begin implementing the SELF MADE method.
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Expand
Establish a reliable foundation and begin building your unique framework.
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Evolve
Refine your practices, and deepen into yourself and your community.
MEMBERS ONLY EVENTS
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Explore
Thursdays, 12pm PST // 3pm EST
Overall focus is geared toward those of us who are newer to a practice, or who are *curious* about renegotiating our relationship to alcohol and/or other substances via the SELF MADE method, or for those of us who want to stay close to foundational tools and practices.
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Expand
Wednesdays, 9am PST // 12pm EST
This one is all about deepening into community. Calls will center on a theme or topic, and will include structured break-out groups to foster connection and deepen relationships among subscribers.
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Evolve
Tuesdays, 6pm PST // 9pm EST
For those of us who have settled into a more longer-term practice (as defined by YOU) and are looking to evolve and deepen into what’s next.
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Creative Fridays
March 17, 11am - 1pm PST // 2 - 4pm EST
Spend two hours in creative co-working with other community members. We’ll check in about projects and then go head down for a couple of hours together. Come for the accountability, inspiration, and of course, community.